I had breakfast with Hui this morning at Bakerlyn Cafe in Kiulap (photo insert: me holding her latest creation named Pixie-Corn the Unicorn. A shout out to Artz of the Heart - search for Artzoftheheart Brunei on Facebook and you will see more!) and I shared with her what I had read based on my previous posting from the Reader's Digest.Sunday, 6 November 2011
Hui's Tips
I had breakfast with Hui this morning at Bakerlyn Cafe in Kiulap (photo insert: me holding her latest creation named Pixie-Corn the Unicorn. A shout out to Artz of the Heart - search for Artzoftheheart Brunei on Facebook and you will see more!) and I shared with her what I had read based on my previous posting from the Reader's Digest.De-Bunked!

I couldn’t resist picking up the October 2011 issue of the Reader’s Digest that was on my dad’s bedside table. With a photo of a juicy, might I add, healthy looking burger with a portion of chips on the side on the cover and in large-ish font “Is This the Way to Lose Weight?* The New Science of Dieting – Fat Can Help You Lose Weight!” – I just had to pick it up and quickly turned to page 38.
My first impressions as I read the article with absolute interest was that, this was the missing link between me and my food plan which I had embarked on 2 years ago. I never knew the “scientific” reason as to why they had asked me to do what I had to do and even though I had neglected to ask, I would have appreciated an explanation. Nevertheless, I now have some answers!
Thank you for all the research by Gary Taubes, author of Why We Get Fat – and What to Do About It. A well written article by Lisa Davis who interviewed Gary Taubes.
What you need to know:
The message for the past 40 years has been, if you don’t want to be fat, cut out fat from your diet. In those years, obesity rates have continued to go up.
Fat is not the enemy – Digested Carbohydrates are i.e. what has been promoted as the staples of our eating regimen e.g. white rice, fat-free yogurt, plain baked potatoes and plain pasta.
Food that we have been told to shun e.g. burgers, steak, cheese, sour cream etc can help us lose weight and keep our hearts healthy.
Sounds controversial? Keep reading…
The hypothesis that we need to work with is NOT “If I get fatter, it’s obvious that I must have overeaten.” It doesn’t address why we have overeaten. The alternative hypothesis is then, “You don’t get fat because you’re overeating. You overeat because you developed a disorder in the way your fat tissue is regulated.”
“Over the past 40 years, studies have shown that you can’ get a clinical significant effect from cutting calories. At the same time experts are saying that gluttony and sloth are responsible for weight gain, they’ll tell you no diet works and that’s why we have to come up with some anti-obesity drug that’ll make billions.”
Restricting calories is ineffective because if you restrict energy intake, your cells actually burn less energy. This will not help with weight loss.
It is impossible to count calories. No matter how good you are at counting calories and practice energy balance i.e. energy in = energy out, then why aren’t we all fat?
I love this part – “What we tell people to do to lose weight – eat less and exercise more – is exactly what you’d do if you wanted to make yourself hungry.”
There is no compelling evidence that exercise has any effect on weight. [However all these years, it somehow seems to have worked for me… *scratch head* - the article says that it’s a reasonable assumption to make but still the data does not full support this.]
There is a way to lose weight!
It has been known since the 1960s by scientists that insulin is the primary hormone that regulates your fat tissue; therefore you need to eat food that keep insulin low.
The key is in a low-carb diet! You eat what you want until you’re satiated – you just don’t eat the things that will make you fat. In most of the studies conducted, a low-carb diet actually does better than a low-fat, low-calorie diet.
What to eat? Read the entry after this posting…
A low-fat diet that people have been eating to protect their hearts is actually bad for their heart, because it’s high in carbohydrates.
A low-carb diet improves your cholesterol profile, your insulin resistance goes away and your blood pressure goes down.
It’s not your fault if you have a weight problem! *YAY*
An obese person gets judged because doctors assume that they don’t care to do what they do i.e. Eat in moderation, and exercise but it’s a hormonal disorder. “Not everyone gets fat from eating carbohydrates – it has to do with how sensitive your cells are to insulin and specifically how sensitive your fat cells are versus your muscle cells. But some huge percentage of the people who do get fat got that way because of the carbs in their diet. If you’ve been fat for a long time, getting rid of carbohydrates might not make you lean. But the leanest you can be is on the diet with the fewest carbohydrates.”
Some cautions to take note of:
Some people feel low energy while their bodies adjust to this way of eating, thought adding a little salt to your diet can take care of it.
You might need to adjust your medication as a low-carb diet can reduce your blood pressure. Talk to your doctor first.
In Summary…“Eat what humans are evolved to eat. Highly refined grains and sugars were not part of our diet for 99.999 percent of human history. Back when we were hunter gatherers, we ate meat as often as we could get it, and when we ate plants, they were much tougher and higher in fibre that they are today – much lower in digestible carbs. In other words, this isn’t a diet. The fundamental idea is, don’t eat the foods that make you fat. Beyond that, you can eat as much as you want.”
My Thoughts: Knowing is one thing and doing is another!
And let’s strive to always do our best, because our best is what we deserve!
Wednesday, 2 November 2011
Motions & Emotions
D'Music Motion, the dance studio which I started with back in April 2009 recently celebrated their 6th Anniversary with a performance on 22nd October 2011. And one of the ways to celebrate a dance studio's anniversary would be to... put on a dance show! It was a celebration of all kinds and forms of dances showcasing the students of the studio as well as some other dancing friends. The show was called Motions and Emotions and I must say, throughout the whole time we dedicated to practice, there certainly was a lot of motion in learning the moves and getting them down to perfection and also emotions since some were thrown into stressful situations or their bodies were not accustomed to such intensity.
I admit, I like performing even though it freaks me out but you need to do something like this once in awhile just to shake things up. And since I committed my time and energy to it, it took a lot of my time especially the evenings. In the end as the weeks and days came closer, we were at the studio 2+ hours a night from 9pm onwards and sometimes needing to give up our Sundays. So no matter how much I wanted to look good in my dress, I was already physically exhausted from attending practice. What I enjoyed the most was building rapport with the other ladies and being able to see their own progress as they mastered the moves.
I was in 3 segments - Argentine Tango (like really, really basic Argentine Tango), Salsa (which I love to bits!) and Burlesque (a 'good girl' routine, a 'bad girl' routine and a bit of moves to support the jive). I never thought I could remember all the steps but I did! I was particularly proud of the 'bad girl' routine because it was just us 4 ladies doing some sexy moves and I still remember how hard it was for me to learn the moves because of the speed. The song was damn fast. But as always, with a good teacher and lots of support from the team, you start off slow, then you practice it over and over again to master it and voila! You bring it on the night!
Apart from the moves, I must say the costumes really got me the most. I say that because, I had to reveal my body in public. I have never worn a sleeveless dress (swimsuits not counted) in public, or a dress which is above my knee caps (I thought the shape of my legs didn't allow that) but I did. And when you're up there in front of so many people, with the bright lights on you, with a face that does not look like your own thanks to all the make up and thinking about all the hours of practice you have put yourself through with everyone else and how much the success and the reputation of the studio is at stake - you're bound to somehow look good in those costumes!
Photo Inserts:
Burlesque : Black dress with the purple frill skirt (comes complete with gloves, a blonde wig and a hairband)
Argentine Tango : Ladies in red with the ladies in the black Chinese (that's my interpretation of it!) inspired dress.
Salsa : The colourful fluffy layered skirt modeled by yours truly with the costume designer Roman from Philippines and flanked by the MCs for the evening in traditional Victorian costumes.
To me, the whole experience was truly about being comfortable in your own skin regardless of body shape and size and embracing another form of expression. It was an affirmation for me that I was able to do this with confidence despite making a couple of mistakes while dancing... but I am really proud of myself for having made my life more adventurous with dance!
Thank you for the opportunity! :-)
Saturday, 27 August 2011
Tying the Knot
Friday, 1 July 2011
Revisiting Weight Loss Goals for Adventurers
I was looking back at some of my previous entries and stumbled upon this entry regarding what were some of my weight loss goals. And now I get to say, whether I have achieved them or not! (see below) I am so pleased to see that I have! This also goes to show how quickly we can forget our achievements or how much we undervalue them. I do feel that lately I have been going backwards in terms of progress yet others say I look smaller and that makes me feel good but I know I must do my best to maintain what I have lost. My clarinet teacher even said to me, "It would be a pity if you didn't maintain all the hard work you have put after all this time."
So it's back to, what are you out there to achieve? Massive weight loss in terms of numbers (which can make you miserable if you're obsessed) or will you choose to also look beyond the weighing scale taking note there are other measurements of success?
WEIGHT LOSS GOALS FOR ADVENTURERS -
Thursday, 30 June 2011
The Power of Words
For the International Speech Contest, this was the furthest I had gone from Club, Area, Division and finally making it to the District Level to compete with my fellow Toastmasters from Sarawak and Indonesia. Apart from going through the ups and downs of preparing for the contest, there was one thing I was dead set on. Even if I didn't emerge as Champion and make my way to be in the semi-finals of the World Championship of Public Speaking; if I could inspire even at least 1 member of the audience to break through their brick walls, that would already make me a winner. It would be a gratifying experience to know that I was a part of their process to spark that change in their lives!
Not too long ago, I added Jocelyn as a Facebook friend whom I had only met at the Kuching Convention where I had competed. I recall in the car on the way to the airport, she had asked me about weight loss and I shared with her some snippets. Her Facebook posting on my wall (see attachment) just made me so grateful I had the opportunity to share my story and my message to the audience that day.
Never underestimate the power of words.
And never underestimate that you could be a source of inspiration.
"Am I Fat?" - by Dayna Macy
It provides a perspective and an awareness. Now what choice will we make?
[http://www.healyourlife.com/author-dayna-macy/2011/06/lifeshelp/get-healthy/am-i-fat&utm_id=HYLFB]
Am I Fat?
Confessions of a food lover.
Published: June 10, 2011
By Dayna Macy
My ravenous relationship with food.
“Am I fat?”
I’ve never actually asked this question of another human being—until now.
I’m sitting in the office of Dr. Linda Bacon, a nutrition professor in the Biology Department at City College of San Francisco and author of Health at Every Size. I’m here because I embrace the message of her book: don’t wait to live your life, the perfect one you imagine you’ll live one day in your perfect body. Live it now.
“Yes.”
I want to make sure I’ve heard correctly. “You just said I’m fat, right?”
She nods and says again, “Yes.”
I’m silent. My hitherto unspoken weight hierarchy always began with thin, moved on to average, then on to chunky, then on to fat, and then finally obese. I have always put myself in the chunky category, or its kinder, gentler cousin—curvy. But never fat. Fat is another country, far away from where I live.
After a pause she asks, “What does that mean to you?”
“Well, what the f**k does that mean to you?” I counter.
She remains calm. “Fat, you know,” and here she grabs her nonexistent belly fat, “adipose tissue. Fat.”
That’s it? “All you mean by fat is ‘adipose tissue’?”
“Yes,” she says, “that’s all I mean. But I know it’s a loaded term,” she adds.
You might say that.
Dr. Bacon tells me that even though she’s using the word fat in the most clinical sense, the truth is, labels are always arbitrary. One person’s average is another person’s fat is another person’s curvy. So don’t get hung up on the labels.
“So tell me again what you mean by calling me fat?” I ask.
“What I’m saying is you have adipose tissue I might not see on a thinner person.” She pauses, and then adds, “And regardless of any of these labels, you radiate health and vibrancy. I think you’re gorgeous,” she concludes.
I have to hand it to her; in our culture, fat and gorgeous are seldom used together in the same sentence.
Maybe she’s using the word fat clinically, but it still stings. What’s more, she’s right. And I know it.
Couldn’t I just accept this? Be fat and be fine with it? It’s not that I yearn to look like a model. I’m heading toward 50 and I’ve had two children. I just know that at this point, for me, being fat doesn’t feel good. My fat shows up in lots of ways: when I walk up hills and have to take frequent rests, when I need to buy the next size pants because my current ones don’t close.
If I’m going to change, I need to see clearly. Dr. Bacon’s words may cut, but they’re helping me do that.
Excerpted from Ravenous: A Food Lover's Journey from Obsession to Freedom by Dayna Macy. Copyright © 2011 (Hay House).
Dayna Macy’s essays have appeared in Self, Salon, Yoga Journal, and other publications; and in several anthologies. Website DaynaMacy.com
